Specimen: hi..I am kinda new at this online dating thing but thought you where cute and just wanted to say hi..
Analysis: This message is analogous to walking up to a female specimen at a bar and saying, “I’m new to dating, you’re hot, but I have nothing else to say.” It doesn’t fly. “Just saying hi” is generally useless. And, it’s online, it’s not like the bar is closing at 2 a.m. He could have waited until he thought of something substantive to write before sending that message.
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