8/21/2011 9:23:38 AM
Specimen: HOW U DOIN………………………………………………………………………..
8/21/2011 2:39:33 PM
Specimen: u to pretty
8/23/2011 6:31:20 PM
Specimen: how u doin
8/25/2011 2:28:38 PM
Specimen: hey..
8/26/2011 11:58:02 AM
Specimen: how u doin
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Analysis: Sending five messages devoid of substance is an ineffective approach. I give him credit for his persistence, but not enough to motivate me to respond to him.
Not to defend anyone, but it seems that its about 90% of males have to do the message sending and 10% of females do the sending. I think that it shows consistency that he still comes back to you every day/couple of days. That’s a positive, however….his lack of intelligent conversation is discerning.
you have to make them want to message you… why should a girl talk to me if I can’t come up with something clever to say?
If you cannot express higher value and barely scratch the surface through social media and/or the internet to another person… well then you should start working on yourself.. your REAL self.. not your facebook residual image
I’m not suggesting that he compose a novella. But, three sentences personalized to the message recipient would help his cause.
There is a lack of people who are not shallow on dating sites. I tried and found some people I was attracted to, had some great conversations, but why is it people have to lie about who they are?! Can’t people just be proud of who they are?
What kind of lies?
Say something funny… that’s the go to move. Funny gets your foot in the door.
You can be funny all you want but if you aren’t real, then funny doesn’t get you a partner for life. If you are just trying to score for the night then I understand.
People tend to put on an image to be that person you are looking for and then by month 3 you find out what the person really is. Can’t people be real? I myself am tired of being alone and I have seriously just given up on it, if it comes it comes, if it happens it happens.
Yeah dude but who knows if they’re going to be together forever on the first date? I don’t believe in that. Even at times when I fell in love from afar it took at least a couple weeks lol
Funny gets a second date… worry about life partnership later, I say.
I’m surprised the caps “HOW U DOIN” were not the key to your heart. They’ve always worked for me….