Specimen: hi..I am kinda new at this online dating thing but thought you where cute and just wanted to say hi..
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Analysis: This message is analogous to walking up to a female specimen at a bar and saying, “I’m new to dating, you’re hot, but I have nothing else to say.” It doesn’t fly. “Just saying hi” is generally useless. And, it’s online, it’s not like the bar is closing at 2 a.m. He could have waited until he thought of something substantive to write before sending that message.
No response.
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Oh and don’t forget the grammar/spelling of “where cute” vs “were cute”…..
It is uber lazy. Especially when the subject line is usually ALREADY “hi”
If he looked like Brad Pitt, you’d be all over him despite his retarded message. I think that’s what he was hoping for when he sent this message.